Long Distance Relationship Works


Working for our family is one of the main reason why we work so hard. Endless nights and countless days just to provide shelter, food, and other basic needs for our family. However if there are bigger opportunities overseas you will grab the chance to work outside the country so that you can give all their needs and wants. Long distance relationship will be at stake. Miles maybe apart but there are a lot of ways on how to make your relationship last longer. Love wins and love is a decision.


There will be trials and bumps along the way that is just one way on how to prove to each other that you really decided to remain faithful and loyal to each other love each other as vow on your wedding.


  1. Communication

Thanks to the technology that brings family closer to each other even they are miles away. Remind your spouse that you are blessed to have him as a husband he is the biggest surprise that God have given to you. Working spouse needs a lot of comfort from their wives because they battle loneliness in their job it is not an easy job to be away from your away so always text them and call them to let them know that you are praying for their safety.


  1. Remind your spouse that it is just temporary

There is no easy way to ease the pain whenever you are left alone in the house to take good care of your children. You are going to be the father-mother to your children. However you do not have to feel sad and anxious about it just remind your spouse that this is just temporary and everything will be alright as soon as you can save money and decided that your spouse will stay in your country for good. The bigger the sacrifice the bigger the reward.


  1. Hold on to your vow

Long distance relationship is about compromising each other difference especially that you are miles away from each other. It takes time, effort, and unconditional love to do it.



Call Center Agent vs Customer: Love APPLICATION


Customer Service Rep: Can you install LOVE?

Customer: I can do that. I’m not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?

Customer Service Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma’am?

Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now.Is it okay to install while they are running?

Customer Service Rep: What programs are running ma’am?

Customer: Let me see….I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.EXE running right now.

Customer Service Rep: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.EXE Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma’am?

Customer: I don’t know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Customer Service Rep: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.EXE have been completely erased.

Customer: Okay, I’m done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal?

Customer Service Rep: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message?

Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?

Customer Service Rep: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades.

Customer: Oops…I have an error message already. What should I do?

Customer Service Rep: What does the message say?

Customer: It says “ERROR 412 – PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS”. What does that mean?

Customer Service Rep: Don’t worry ma’am, that’s a common problem. It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to “LOVE” your own machine before It can “LOVE”others.

Customer: So what should I do?

Customer Service Rep: Can you find the directory called “SELF-ACCEPTANCE”?

Customer: Yes, I have it.

Customer Service Rep: Excellent, you are getting good at this.

Customer: Thank you.

Customer Service Rep: You’re welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the “MYHEART” directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, EALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.

Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH.EXE, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.EXE are copying themselves all over my HEART!

Customer Service Rep: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go…

Customer: Yes?

Customer Service Rep: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you.

Customer: I will. Thank you for your help.


Re-post lang PO ito.

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Quilos Experienced Extreme HEALING!

All I need is to see my family changing, Healed, serving God and Loving God!

And TODAY… we just experience extreme GOODNESS of God!

We just got home from Bansalan..
Abrupt family reunion bcoz of my died aunt. (aunt bebe)

Praise Jesus!
Jesus just HEALED 4 of our relatives from there.
1. leukemia (Uncle Ontoy)
He can’t walk that much, and he needs an assistant at least 3 men just to send him to sala kanina.
~~~after we prayed for him, he walked, he jumped, and raised his hands praising God. He even went outside walking without any help from us!

2. Heart failure (Uncle Dodoy)
after Jesus healed him..
He felt relax and easy and confident after we prayed for him.
He took a deep breath to try it out.

3. Leukemia sa Blood (Krissa Jay) 6 yrs old
The last time I saw her and prayed for her (that was last year), she wasn’t able to walk, jump or even play, and with consistent HIGH fever.
But now, I saw her kinda chubby, can walk, can jump, can even play with her friends! pero naa pa ghapon sya leukemia..
so after we prayed…
She’s now healed in Jesus name!
We asked them all (3) to go for their next check up for God’s glory!

4. Uncle Yoyo (one of the oldest relatives we have sa side nila mama)
He can’t hear that much.. and when tito bong prayed for him tito tried right away to whisper sa iyang ears, and then…… dadadadanndadadan!
Ana si yoyo, “oh kana bong kadungug nako ana”

Signs, Miracles and Wonders FOLLOW US!
To God be the glory!


My mommy ching, tito randy and tita rhea and cousins Jay, Jed, Renn and Yin was there and testified

how God moved!

The only Goal we (tito bong and family) wanted was tito randy and family and momy ching’s family

will also be serving the Lord and loving HIM!

And I do believe that TODAY is the day that God is moving in them.

~It’s their first time to see something like that, that Christians normally see.

~They only saw it on TV and other places but right in their own eyes, they saw and believed in it

that it is God’s movement and not just human capacity. INDEED, He is Magnificent, Omnipotent and Powerful!
~I believe Lord, you are changing their hearts towards you, I believe that YOU did something inside of them,

~I believe that this is the starting point.

~I believe that it is NEVER NEVER an IMPOSSIBLE thing for YOU, if you’re going to

transform them for glory to glory.

It was a FUN-FAM DAY for me!

How to COURT Philippine Women

Soon enough, you will meet a lovely Filipina online or in person and believe she may be the one. You will be pleasantly surprised, how natural it will feel to become friends and soulmates.

We strongly encourage you to plan as much time as possible, to get to know each other in person at this stage – if possible at least several months.

Most Filipinas are old-fashioned and will want to be courted and to have their friends and family courted by you. If they are widows this will be less pronounced. However, for an unmarried Filipina it is vital. They like to be honored, appreciated and swept off their feet by the man of their dreams. They like to be sure that there is a future in it, and will want to have the positive reassurance from their family and friends that you are a quality man who will care well for her.

Here are some fun and effective ways to court her:


The basis of all courting to a Filipina, is that you respect her in every way. This means you compliment her, are serious about her, honor her, be unselfish around her, do not pressure her and treat her like a lady.


Filipinas love to walk and sightsee with her man. She enjoys holding hands and walking everywhere. She will even walk in the light rain with you. She just enjoys your companionship and having you next to her. She is proud to be with a foreign man in her own country.


The favorite films of most Filipinas are action adventure, martial arts, horror and science fiction. They get bored through long dramas and they many times do not understand the humor from different countries like the U.S., Great Britain and Australia. So, take them to a movie where there is a lot of action, suspense, scary scene, tae kwon do or karate and they will be smiling. Also, most of them love flavored popcorn.


Filipinas love to watch television for a variety of reasons. It is escapist entertainment from financial problems, that dominate their personal and cultural lives. It allows many of them who want to learn English, to have an on-screen mentor. It can be a factual look at the world which intrigues them, because they are isolated on an island. It is colorful, raucous and joyful, especially the variety shows. The Filipinas will sing along and even dance with the stars on the screen. Watch television with a Filipina. It is a great way to spend an evening.


Not all, but most Filipinas love to sing or watch their friends sing karaoke. They really get into it. It is incredibly charming to hear them croon their favorite songs in their unique dialect. One moment they are quietly sitting on a couch and the next minute they are expertly belting out tunes that make their hearts full of happiness. A duet would be great with you and your woman!


Several hours at one of the malls in the Philippines is a fun way to spend a day. From window shopping, to buying her something special, to eating and laughing in the Food Court to just sitting on a bench watching people walk by. They love their malls. They love clothes and shoes and make up and perfume and having a man around to enjoy it with them. Even if you don’t buy anything expensive. Make sure to get a snack for everyone, and one T-shirt or bra on sale is a great idea and sufficient. Believe it.


After a long afternoon or evening, one of the delights of a Filipina is to relax in the room with her man. Along with that, you can really make her smile if you stop off at a bakery or a produce stand and pick up ample supplies of her favorite pastries, breads and fruits. Let her sit on the bed, you take the couch and feast to your heart’s content! She will feel spoiled and adored as she munches on seedless grapes, rolls, watermelon, cantaloupe and oranges. Throw in some cartons of fruit juices and you will make her really smile!


Want to make your beautiful lady feel special? Manicures, pedicures and hair styling will send her off the charts! She loves being beautiful for the man she is with and a trip to the beauty salon is a treat for her both in giving to you and receiving for herself. However, we also think this can be embracing an idea about appearances being too important, so we prefer the thai massage. For just a few dollars, you can both go to get a thai massage. Be sure to explain to the proprietor that you both want a thai massage and that you need two ladies, one for each of you. Thai massages are conservative (you wear pants and shirt) and everyone has a great, relaxing time.


Filipinas are proud of their natural resources. Take her to the ocean and walk with her. Sit and watch the setting sun. Fill the conversation with compliments on how much you love the beauty of her homeland and let her talk for hours about her childhood growing up near the water. It will be one of the most intimate dates of your life, as you get to know the woman you court.


A big table filled with food and drinks surrounded by family and friends all laughing and talking in tagalog is a Filipina’s dream come true. Your lady friend and those she loves really like to eat, party and tell jokes all evening long. You may not understand most of what they are saying but you will be fulfilled by the joy you see in their faces. One of the best dates of your life!


It’s time to see the sights! From Ocean Park, to the zoo and everything in between, courting your Filipina means taking her places and letting her experience the joy of places, events and sights. Most Filipinas either work all the time or they stay home too much. Get her out there and watch her come alive!


Many Filipinas love badminton. Play a game with her. They like volleyball. Tell her to get several of her friends and family members and put up a net. Teach her to play pool. She will love it! Take her bowling. Go to a popular sporting event, like basketball, a favorite among Filipinos. If she belongs to a workout club, go with her. Afterwards, relax over a glass of juice and tell her how healthy and beautiful she is to you. Yes.


A main aspect of courting a Filipina is the romantic one. A Filipina loves to feel like a princess and swept off her feet. She loves the fairy tale. Dressing up and sitting in candlelight, touches her heart in the deepest of ways. Bring her a rose. Write her a poem. Look into her eyes and tell her beautiful she is to you. It is magical to her soul. She will never forget those moments with you in the beauty of those moments.

Now, for the three most important areas of courting her,


Always respect her friends. If you criticize them she will not only be irritated or angry, she will see that as a sign of disrespect towards her. You don’t have to like every one of her friends, but always let her know how you appreciate their importance in her life. Treat them to meals with the two of you. Include them in your courtship of her. Very important.


The time will come for you to meet her mom, dad and siblings. This also may include her aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, nieces and grandparents. In the Philippines, the family is the core of a Filipina’s heart. Treat her family to dinner, especially her parents and siblings. Double date with her parents. Remember, you will not be marrying a Filipina alone; you will be marrying her family too. The more you get to know them and honor them, the more she will love you and trust you.


The majority of Filipinas on CF are Catholics. They are just as committed to their church, as the born-again Christian women are to their fellowship. Go to church or Mass with your lady friend. Show her you respect her faith and love for Jesus Christ. Find out what she believes and how strong her beliefs are in Him. Always support her even if there are some theological differences between you. Work them out if you love each other. This is the foundation of your love together so it is critical you bond here.

Courting is old-fashioned, yes. But, it is vital to winning the heart of the Filipina woman. I wish you the best in all that you do to build steps of honor and appreciation for the lady you may love forever. May the Lord be with both of you as your courtship reveals His will for your lives.


Filipina ladies are not afraid to commit to you for a lifetime, and expect that you too should be ready for this step if you are courting them. When you are both ready you will be able to talk about this with each other first, and then with her family when she suggests it soon thereafter. We do not recommend bringing this up with her family (except perhaps as a friendly joke if it comes naturally to you) before she is comfortably bringing it up with them.


Treat her well, and she will honor you for as long as you both shall live.

This is my BESTDING


20 Things About Me
1.I have gone through many ups and Downs,twists and turns,and life is not always giving me roses yet Serving the Lord is really the desire of my heart.

2.At the mere age of 23. I am already a mother of two sons. They are so precious to me ,they really make me laugh…they surely can make my day.They are more than a blessing to me.

3.I wanna be Mrs. Jennilyn Matsunaga..Awww Lopez diay. Peace Brad!

4. One of my life passions – READING. This is like something I can do all day.I always tend to buy books as my ” PAY YOURSELF FIRST”.One of the best gifts I would love to receive during CHRISTmas or my birthday is Book (Christian or Leadership Books ).

5.I love to create my own world too- By Writing.I love to write poems,articles and even writing my own daily Diary. The First Poem I wrote when I was in High School was entitled ” Why Cinderella Can’t Be With Snow White”. I do tend to write if I am doing nothing, I do something different and I often find that if I’m getting bored. That’s the reason all my email accounts has a lot of saved folders and messages on Draft folder.

6. My classmates,friends, close friends in school and even my best of friends calls me “Walking Dictionary ” and I like that bother than my nickname.(Sa una tong student pako,hehehe).

7.Yes my Nickname is Lovely or Love2..hhahaha but I do not want to be called by my nickname (especially boys ).If I will hear them saying “Hi love” ..ughhh..they are really getting into my nerves pero sa una lng toh karon dawat na nku akung nickname. heheheh

8.I have surrended my life to Jesus when I was in grade school (to be exact- Grade 6 )my mama was diagnosed with Mattress cancer and gone through surgeries.Just one night I was having hard time going to sleep so I kneeled down and prayed the whole night. I could still remember the prayers I heartily uttered ” LOrd, wla ko kabalo kung tinood ka,nagaadto ko sa Church for the sake na makasimba ko .Pero This time, Heal my mama and I will be thankful and offer my life”. That was the very first time I have felt the Holy Spirit and His Presence. So Sweet of You Lord and for that I cannot afford not to believe in YOU.

9.I was so unforgiving I can even afford not to talk to you for years til I have encountered the Lord.I still forgives even I don’t feel like forgiving.I always teach myself.

10. I am INDEPENDENT! Aside from the Lord, I do not expect someone else to support me.

11.I was then a man Hater ,, I don’t make friends with them, I never talk to them ,I dont bother to have even a cliche conversation with them (Mao nang NBSB ko dati).Til One day I have joined “The God Encounter” and made me Realize that everyone is precious in His Eyes.

12. And Yes! It’s my first time so please be careful with my heart Ser Chef.hahahaha

13. I love it when people judge negatively especially when they find out that they were wrong.

14. I always Sleep with 3 Boys . Roy Michael Laurente Lopez, and our sons baby Hazael Brooke Lopez and Izrahael Ford Lopez. I love them!

15. If I have something to say or something isn’t right I will only feel better If I will air out my gripe or grievances and be frank (Either in person, through email or letter).I do not care if that person will feel bad or what would be the result afterwards.If I want people to treat me right I always tell them what is right.

16. I can’t sleep if I am preoccupied, unsure or if there are undone tasks. I want everything to be exact and accurate.

17. I do not find myself as an Employee. I wanted to have my own business. (businesswoman in the making)

18. I feel so stagnant if I am doing nothing.

19. I am Family Oriented. I won’t trade them for anything in this world .They are the reason why I am here, the reason I will serve and everything.I also Value Friendship.

20. I must confess, Lord I have been so blessed.I am loved, highly Favored,Forgiven, Accepted,Healed,Leader,HIS princess and a FULFILLED Promise.
I am what I am!

Iyah’s Drawings!

Am so Proud of this kid!
She always Copy what I draw and what she saw on TV.